To change your life and the direction of it, the most important thing that you must do is take and stay. Gogol here is that at one time wrote about this law: “God no wonder stopped the man exactly at the place where it is located. You just need to look around yourself.
Think about the fact that our world is one huge mirror. Take a look around and you with absolute clarity realize what you seek and where this should learn. Because, in fact, our world is neither evil nor good. To man the world indifferent. Absolutely everything that happens to a man, is simply a reflection of his actions and thoughts.
Our lives, where we live, is nothing but the result of our choice, and conscious and unconscious. Throughout life we make choices. Choice is always there. Even in those moments when it seems to us that we make no choice, this is also a choice. Jean-Paul Sartre once, then said: “I can always make a choice, but I have to be sure that even when I’m not picking anything, I hereby make a choice”.
Aware that people do not control their thoughts, but thoughts control man. For example, a slight concern on any matter, with frightening ease can escalate into a phobia. It is very important to learn to control the flow of thoughts and switch to something else. If a person constantly thinks about their experience, it could start a chain reaction that could attract into our lives other negative events and thoughts. Learn how to act and not just thinking, take in the habit of solving problems rather than worry about them, and you have a chain reaction. That’s what thought Benjamin Franklin: “a lot of people think about the protection, rather than to focus their thoughts on the possibilities. Such people are more afraid of life than death. “
Everyone knows that just cannot provide. Everyone hears and sees only what he can accept and understand. The way we perceive depends on how we internally are limited. As much as people do not like, he is not in a position to fully control what happens in his life. But do not forget that if the event happened once is a fluke, if it happened two times is a coincidence. If three is a regularity. If life in this way tries to teach you-learn.
Everything begins with emptiness. But don’t forget that emptiness is always filled. In order to make our lives happened something new or appeared someone new, you should free up space and prepare good ground. And for this there is no need to put a lot of effort is enough to get rid of old habits and false beliefs of life. Jim Rohn said: “If you’re not happy where you are–depart! You’re not a tree! “
A person can be anywhere, because it is not we choose the route of our lives. But if we take too long to move on someone else’s path, then on your way then it is very difficult to come back. This one statement: “human life is very similar to running dog sledding. If you are not a leader, your landscape will never change. “
The more a person develops, the more it opens opportunities that he can take from the world, as well as give others. But never forget that the Exchange should always be equal. If you give more than you take, be sure that this will break your own balance and lead to emotional exhaustion.
Almost nobody likes change. If you need to change, usually it meets resistance, so as to place us keeps only the old and the past. It is very important to be able to let go of the past and a new life, without a doubt, to obey the law. “These changes are not Light ever. A person is able to change only when it has to change. “